21 things I've learned by 21

21 Things I've Learned By 21.

Today I turned 21. As much as I want to be excited about it and as much as I couldn't wait until I hit this age when I was younger, I sure am not THAT ecstatic. Just because I know I'm getting older and with that comes responsibility and the real world... which is scary. I'm also going into a transition of being out on my own and I moved to a new city hours away from home, so it all has hit me at once and its overwhelming! I wanted to share some things I've learned within these 21 years. These are things I life has taught me so far and that keep me grounded.

1. To not run to God ONLY during bad times, but praise him and give him the glory during the good times, too.

2. It's okay to work hard, but don't forget to rest because it's just as important.

3. Life is not about YOU and don't let the world trick you into selfishness your entire life. Obviously, take care of yourself and there are times when you need to be selfish for your own health but don't STAY in that mindset. It's good to help and put other's need before yourself. That what we're here for. To serve.

4. When things get tough remember life isn't happening TO you. It's happening FOR you. You will get through rough times.

5. Don't let anything steal your joy for too long. Allow yourself to feel... just don't feel it forever.

6. Listen to your gut.

7.  Accept who you are and don't apologize for it or be embarrassed. It does nothing but hold you back.

8.  Forgive others and yourself.

9. God runs my life, not me. I cannot control everything. Sometimes we can drive ourselves nuts because we have a vision of how things are going to turn out and we have a plan. When those plans don't happen to the way we envisioned we get disappointed because our expectations weren't met. But He has a reason and plan for everything.

10. Accept change and know that it's a good thing. It's the most uncomfortable feeling for me but the older I get, the more I realize how necessary it is for us to step outside of our comfort zones.

11. EXERCISE hunny!!

12. Surround yourself with people that make you laugh and love life.

13. To think and speak positively about yourself because there is power in the tongue. If you think/say it enough, you'll start to believe it. Positive or negative.

14. Consistency is key in all aspects of life. Physical, mental, and spiritual goals.

15. Put the phone down.

16. Comparison is the thief of joy. Don't watch other peoples lives and get caught up in it. Your life is your life and it makes you who you are. You are where you're supposed to be right now.


17. Be good to people.

18. Be thankful for everything.

19. Saying no is okay and doesn't make me a bad person

20. Save your damn money.

21. I cannot stop the fact that I'm aging, so enjoy the ride hunny. Life is good. It's only up from here. 💚